I think I should be able to trust my surrogate mothers. They have literally saved my life before and I love them to death, but am TERRIFIED of trusting ANYONE; especially a mother-figure, since trusting my mother has just gone soooooo well in the past
. But you're right; and with other people, it's very hard for me to trust anyone, even if they've proven themselves trustworthy over and over again. Trust takes time, and I used to say: it takes at least a year for people's true colors to come out. Or at least, that was my rationalization for all my "friends" ditching me after about a year
. And thank you. I needed to hear that right now
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Originally Posted by Crew
First of all (((((((((((((((Atreyu)))))))))))))))))))))
Second of all it sounded like you described me to a "T."
3rdly (word?) as you grow in your healing there seems to be plenty of people
ready to be your friend, like us  for example. I think you have a lot to give here as do most everyone.
Just something to think about...
The Last but not Least *Please don't take this negatively* as I have not great ways at saying things correctly these days...
Just a ?
Why do you feel you ought to give Trust, quickly anywhere?
I do have to say though that you do have to eventually trust so you can get some help... Try not to be so hard on yourself. I think your doing awesome.
You are a good person from what I have seen now just believe that and your well on your way.
Take care (((((Atreyu)))) and stay safe, we need people like you around here, imo! |