Hi Lex,
I don't think he hates you. I think he may be hurting. Ouch.
Let him feel his pain. Right now, it can't be about you. You got to let him have his pain, too.
I don't mean to sound mean with that-it's just that I can imagine it's hard for him to comfort and reassure you when he's just had the wind knocked out of himself from you.

You need to be compassionate for his feelings right now.
((((((((Lex))))))))))