Jexa,

What if you don't talk about the SI at all? What if you just talk about T moving, and the big feelings that that brings up (or that it would bring up if you weren't using the SI)?

I know that in the past, I've used everything from bad coping behaviors to giant fights with T to avoid talking about the *real* issue. Will talking about the SI really help? Or will talking about T and your feelings help more?

Thinking of you