I'd be much more happier if this whole post by me would have been left in the past, I have "moved" on and wish to let this whole matter rest.
Anyone who should happen to come across my original post, just disregard, as if I never wrote it, I should have had this DELETED back then.
Take care, I hope others like I have, learned that "moving on" can be a good thing

In giving advice seek to help, not please your friend
SOLON