I was hoping that I can get some advise on this site, as this is my first post. I am currently dating someone with anxiety and depression. He relived this to me after I moved in with him, I was a bit shocked since I am not used to people being on medication. I over reacted at the time and now I am bit more supportive. It is hard for me at times to deal with him, he gets sad for no reason and is super sensitive. Lately we have been arguing a lot over basically nothing. Yesterday, was a good example: he was away on a business trip while he was gone I expressed to him that I missed him and can't wait to see him. When he arrived home yesterday, we sat on the balcony, I have this fear of bugs or any sort. I tried to kill this mosquito that was on the balcony , he gets upset with me because I was trying to kill the mosquito. We went back inside to talk instead and I tried not to worry about what happened and let it go. With his body language i noticed that he was still annoyed by me trying to kill a mosquito.

To me that wasn't a big deal and I felt like he held on to it. Am I wrong for trying to kill a bug? THis is a constant battle of dealing with him not knowing when he is going to get upset with me. He claimed that he was tired but it seems like the excuse for every argument..