doogie, I identify with everything you said!
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I'm afraid now that I have a taste of what it is like to need her and have that need met by her, that I won't ever get it met any other way. That terrifies me. the pitiful thing is, I have a husband that loves me and treats me well, I have children that love me - but the t relationship - it touches something that those other relationships don't. I don't understand it, and I guess it does scare me.
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I could have written the above, word for word. Ts DO touch us in ways that no one else can. The t-relationship is unique in that way. I don't quite understand it either. We can only trust in the process that we will be able to keep the "good stuff" we get from our T inside of us, and because of that, reach out more to be able to get some of it from our real life relationships.