Welcome to the boards.

Serenity is right - to see such love and devotion is very refreshing in this world. I wish you both years of more happiness.

I would think that you could find time to sit down with your wife and try to get her to open up to you and discuss how she is feeling about everything. If you take each problem individually and try to offer solutions, it won't seem so overwhelming and she will realize how supportive you are.

To have everything and everyone come to you with problems can be very stressful. Add the flashbacks and you have many internal feelings. She may be feeling like she can't cope with it all but doesn't want to burden you with it.

Hopefully she will open up to you if you talk to her.

Mary Alice