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But putting everything in order hasn't taken away the feeling.

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Hi estee,

Of course, it's the feeling that hurts us, not the rituals. If only we could face down the feeling (like facing down a bully) then the rituals would just vanish IMHO.

It's so easy to say, but so very hard to do.

I wish it was easier for you.

Peaceful thoughts, M