Welcome!

I know the feeling of being overwhelmed and of being so very tired of it all. I have to remember to take extra special care of self during these times, with rest, watching diet, walks, and a lot of deep breaths to help for perspective.

I am sorry to hear of the position you have been placed in with your husband. Is there a therapist or counselor you can talk to? W/o going into the legalities, only to say that my husband "has placed a significant burden on me by doing something he shouldn't have", making it general and so you can specifically talk about the relationship and personal issues. I can imagine the toil it must be taking on you.

I really wish I could help more but know I will be thinking about you and sending a big hug. Take GOOD care of yourself meanwhile!