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Originally Posted by rainbow8
I'm afraid now that I have a taste of what it is like to need her and have that need met by her, that I won't ever get it met any other way. That terrifies me. the pitiful thing is, I have a husband that loves me and treats me well, I have children that love me - but the t relationship - it touches something that those other relationships don't. I don't understand it, and I guess it does scare me. I don't know. Thoughts?
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Hi doogie, I think this ^ is definitely one to think a bit more about. What is it that your T gives you that those other close family members don't? What need does she satisfy in you? That's unique to your history, I think, and it is for you to understand. Once you understand it there is a chance that you can find that "something" in real life and also in yourself. But it takes time.