i have been looking things up and believe i have "Dependent personality disorder " and i dont know what to do im afriad i am losing my family i am afraid of life in general i work my butt off every day and come home to someone i feel doesnt want me here ,,,but i love her so much and could not stand losing her but if it m,akes her happy not to have me around i am so tempted to give her what she wants at the expensive of the affect it is going to have on me ......well anyways i will stop annoying all of you ...thanks for letting me have a few words .