I think it's funny with the going out in Pjs or wearing out what you've slept in. I'm all over lazy days and being comfortable.
But it sounds like you're doing it intentionally so as not to be approached, Justaman.
You're probably a very pretty woman and don't like the attention you recieve because of it. You may not feel confident enough to know how to react to this. People look at pretty girls and guys check you out and try to talk to you. Are you running away from this? Hiding behind your "filth"?
I bet you're still pretty anyway and guys are still checking you out and that's why you held your head down. Not because you felt a mess but because you wanted to disappear because you felt that your little "look a mess" tactic didn't work. You're determined not to be approached. If not by the way you dress then by the way you carry yourself.
You need hugs!!!!! ((((((((((((Justaman)))))))))))))