Jexa, that is why I saved the pic of my T from facebook onto my PC :-) Seriously, I did. I want to see him sometimes and it helps me to ground. But facebook did have a big security update push. I have even changed my options so that people who are my friends can't even see who my other friends are. I know my mom doesn't like this at all.

And the phone msg is really what it should have been the whole time. My T's message sounds the same. I think it is an industry thing to protect themselves against liability if someone doesn't go to hospital and they hurt themselves. So your T is really just late to the party on that one. I am sure it isn't about you.

But boy do I understand how it can feel that way! A few weeks ago my T told me that he was no longer going to accept insurance starting next year. He said he was going to tell the rest of the clients about his decision in October. He had some issues with mine this year and we had that semi-rupture over it. Then he tells me in session about no insurance next year and I was dumb enough to say like a little kid "What about me?" -- HE SMILED almost like laughing! In my mind memory of the event, his face looked like batman's joker!!!!

I know you can guess I felt that I was the one to blame for my T no longer accepting insurance!!! Well, I decided that it was too much a burden to carry and asked him about it. UGGG!!! He was honest and told me that my situation was one of the reasons he did make the change, but that it was not the ONLY reason. He told me about several other things going on that all dealt with the insurance side. So all the pieces put together made him choose to go to a cash-only insurance option. I still felt kinda bad, but not like I did before.

Maybe you can talk it over with T?