Thanks, guys..tried calling and texting my sister but she hasn't answered and lives 100 miles away. Update - he came home, barely talked to me, took a beer out on the patio, read the paper then got up and just left. Sent him a what the??" text, answer was "I'm gone" so I ask "for good?" answer "get my truck (semi) in the morning then off". Which means he'll be gone another month or more. And I have no clue if we're still together or not!