[quote=blueoctober;1472300]PT52; I'm sorry you are going through this. Just know you are a strong woman and you will get through this. Your husband appears to be suffering from the very common mental illness called F'in Douche Bag!

P.S. LOVE your new Profile Pic![/quote
blueoctober, how come it feels like we've known each other forever! You know just the right thing to say and I like that...we can call it FDB right to their faces and they'll never know! "you know, I think maybe you suffer from FDB syndrome...oh yes, it's quite serious..." Ha!
dj: yes, I'm going to volunteer starting Wednesday with Operation Homefront (good to have a break from my pity party) and I find out tomorrow if this lawyer thinks I have a case. Think I'm all cried out, and the really sad part is that he's a wonderful loving man so much of the time, and his anger is so irrational..anyway I got tired of being a wienie and sent him a four part text that basically said quit blaming me for everything and do something about that anger issue!
OK, this is the first time I've smiled in two days...thank you everyone..