Hello Aprilayla,

I feel so sorry for you at the moment. Living with someone like this must break your heart. You should tell the police that he is a drug addict and that he's using now. If you let them know that and let them know you do not want him there, they will watch him to see where he goes and what he does. As soon as he gets a deal they will be at him like a rat up a drain pipe.

He will probably not get that much out of you because he hasn't put that much in to the marriage and the house, but he will still try for something, he has to, to support his habit. Please do not let him sell himself to you with pity, he will try that and it's the worst thing to be put through I can promise you and you will be the one to suffer.

I agree with M.Juniper that you need to get a lawyer and get one fast. You need to put a notice in the paper stating that you are not responsible for any debt incurred in your name by him. Because you don't know what he has done; if he has cancelled mortage payments then he could have done anything at all, and you will have to prove it is not you if he has acquired money in your name in some way.

I really wish you the very best. Please keep us up to date so that we can support you through this if you want us to,

Rhiannon