Hey! Been there, done that. Aside from getting a lawyer, you may want to get what is left of the valuables together in a safe place. Not sure if he gets violent when he withdrawls but you may want to consider calling a domestic violence shelter and talk to a counselor to stay safe. Keep the people in your support network around you. Keep posting on here too. Sounds like he takes advantage of everything you hold dear. I would be feeling really drained yet hypervigilant right about now. I use to try and hide how bad things really are so no one else would know. But as soon as I felt backed into a corner, I had to let people know and I received a lot of emotional support from everyone. please feel free to pm me if you would like. I got my "street education" from people like your husband. People like him can size people like us in five minutes but I have learned to size them up in less time than that. I may have lost a lot of stuff, but I have my sanity. Sending you safe hugs. You are not alone.