DJ & I live together and we are exactly the same as if we were married. We have sperate bank accounts but we pay bills as they come out of one account and then others out of the other account. We plan it so that we have savings left over and a comfy cushion for emergencies.

We may not be married (and we don't wish to be), but we live as a married couple does so why should we act any different?

I think you did the right thing though missquestions because it sounded like he was trying to take advantage of you and that is a low blow. I'd be wary of him because he was trying it on with you and that was why he let it go when you got into the car. He knows his boundary now and I doubt he will test you again for a while....

Rhiannon