The choices that you have in these relationships concerning the SI are out of your control. You are between a rock and a hard place. If you tell they might be judgemental and if you don't tell they give you grief..... The only control that you have is to except either outcome and have peace with the outcomes.
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........
I'm an ISFJ
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