went to sleep oh, about 2 am..woke up before 6. If the hubs follows the usual pattern, he will come and get his semi, come inside and tell me "just concentrate on what you need to do, and quit worrying" etc., but keep that physical distance, then leave and be gone for weeks or even months. Plus, he doesn't know how to say he's sorry. But I don't know..he's never been home and stayed away for basically the whole time (2 days) and been so rude to me, so maybe he's through trying to be "understanding". Until I can prove that the Lamictal has changed everything, he will stay distant. And this time, maybe for good. But I have that phone appt with the attorney's office today...maybe I'll have good news later.