It is too bad that the girl that you love is socially unacceptable for you to love. Having a romantic relationship can be a very healthy thing for promoting people's self-worth. At some point we have to live our own lives and not let society dictate our every move. That being said, there is something to social norms and our behavior, but we have to find some middle ground where we can be happy also. Happiness is related to our self-worth and there are other ways we can work on that. Working towards a career or volunteering to aid in social causes are a couple. When we start feeling better about ourselves we tend to stop projecting what we don't like about ourselves onto other people.
This guy here wrote a pretty good book if you are in to self-help books.
http://www.mindfulselfcompassion.org/
Hope that this helps some, Shoe
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Originally Posted by AlexClayton
I posted on the new members resently about this; I am in my late teens, and think I may have Schizophrenia, I took the quiz on this site and some others that were related and it said I have early signs of Schizophrenia and says I may have OCD as well. Don't know what any of this means, I have been obsessivly attatched to people and things( a girl I know, and books or movies that get to me) I somtimes feel like I am one of the characters in the movies or books, and the girl I feel I love is socialy unexeptable for me to love. I have not told my parents or family for I feel they would think I were lying or just making it up for attention or somthing. When I enter certain areas I feel like somone is there with me, and I act violent towards certain people who don't deserve it but I feel and unending hatred towards them, the thoughts I have about them somtimes make me feel like a Nazi, but I like their idea of total control. I don't have a problem with Jews or anyother race, nationaloty, or religion, just people I feel are inferior. Drug addicts, smoking addicts, people who are well, poor and homless. I don't know why, but I feel I want to eliminate them, I have even devised schemes in my head on how to get away with it. So any help or advise would be nice. PS: I have NEVER gotten this personal with my thoughts.
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