Welcome FitPrk3 to the forum. Finally getting a dx is a great first step. I wish advice on how to get your x-wife to understand that you are working on making things better. Unfortunately it is a slow process and it takes time to get the right med cocktail. I know this must be very painful for you right now first learning you have BD and then losing your wife. Maybe with time she will see the new you. Then again some people just don't have the skills to cope. Wishing you the best and that things will start looking up for you soon. Sending you lots of hugs .