I would feel hurt too if people who said they would come didn't show up. But then again I think it is normal for people to say they will come and then not show up... I think sometimes it is because when they say they will come they don't want to hurt your feelings but they don't think through the consequenses.

In any case I always think it is a sign of intelligence and self-respect to ask for help or support when you need it... so I'm glad you posted, that's what this place is for.