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Old Aug 24, 2010, 06:39 PM
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Location: Perth Australia
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Hey all

Most of you know my story.. So I have a new boyfriend who I initially met online, he works away 4 weeks and is back 1 week (regular roster). Today is exactly one week since he went back to work.

I am having a bit of a meltdown over being able to trust, both him and what I am feeling. I do like him, he has said and done all the right things so far - hard when we have been together about three months and only seen each other for 3 weeks (Skype helps and we chat most nights).

I may be over reacting (due to what Mark did to me maybe??).
The new guy has added a few new friends to FB (all female) and then deleted the post.... you know the one that says L is now friends with..... I saw the post before it was removed and wondered where he had met these girls - but didn't question it until the post was deleted. All the other similar posts are still on his wall.

How do I know if this guy is really decent? He seemed to be 'perfect'.. now I am wondering...

I have met his family, gone to dinner with his parents and out to breakfast with his sister and her BF... we spend every moment together when he is down in Perth.. he is talking houses, marriage and kids.. All the things that I THINK I want... So why am I having these doubts again??
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