That really sucks, KD. I got a reckless driving citation once -- that's what they give you if you're going 20+ over the limit in Virginia. I didn't even live there, so I had to drive all the way back down weeks later to go to court. I never forgot the experience, and it changed the way I drive. My recommendation, for what it's worth, is to let the judge give her the maximum penalty and don't try to plea it down. If she loses her license for a little while, it's really going to leave an impression. That's just me, though. I'd like to say that I wouldn't let her drive for a three months or so, even if the judge said she could -- but it's easy to hand out driving advice when your kid is 1 1/2 years old!