Thanks, Calista+12, I didn't think it was a literal thing I felt that it was just a stir up thing to have a go at me. My request wasn't for information on what a lobotomy is amandalouise I know what one is; I wanted help in simmering her down....how to simmer her down and not have her interfering into my thoughts as I am trying to think. I've had a headache for weeks now just a slow dull ache, not one I've really had before. But I have to go for another consult with neuro I'll let them take care of that.

Thanks for the replies