((((( Rhiannonsmoon )))))
Yes please journal alot that is what we do we write so much at night now it is the only way it seems to get some peace with in it get the stuff out of our head into the black and white. It lets us see if we can come up with a different way of doing it but most of all it is a way for us to say to each other we believe in you and your fears are not ungrounded. Teens act out the loudest when they are afriad and do not know what is going to happen.
Our littles where ans are so scared of being hurt again that we have been in the swinging door syndrom. Their fear is making it very hard on us to stay in one persona. But we do have hope that we will find safety so that those with in with not be in such fear of repeat abuse.
Maybe asking her why she is feeling the way she is or at least ask her to journal what is bothering her on the inside may help take the pressure of a new exsperance offen her.
Just take it day by day and know that we to are traveling this road even though we may be far apart.
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Sometimes the only way to find freedom is to fight for it, even unto death! Because no form of abuse transcends pass it! To live free and with hope is still the greatest gift of life!- anderson
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