Hello violet,

As the facts comes out it is always very hard to accept. Our desire to not want to believe the horror that we see and feel is always tearing at us, trying to rip us apart from the inside. Reading, seeing movies, just hearing a certain word or smelling a scent will be enough to trigger those inside. Their fears will trigger flashes from the past. Keep in mind that what we may see or feel is coming mostly from a young mind that may not be capable of fulling understanding everything in the adult world that we now live in. Sometimes facts and time may be somewhat distorted.

I have found that there are ways to determine what was real and things that were distorted. The way to get past the denial stage is time and patience. This is definately not something that can be rushed. Take care.