NAMI and the hospital Superintendent/CEO/Director are good places to go. Court-ordered medications seem to be fairly easy for psychiatrists to obtain, through the in-hospital court system. Sometimes requesting to be present at your child's Staffing gives you an opportunity to present the facts to the treatment team. But if your daughter is over 17 or 18, she would have to sign a consent for you to receive any information from treatment team members. If she is not of age, it seems to me that you could sign your own consent to release information. In either case, nothing prevents you from calling the doctor [you will probably be routed to the social worker], to PROVIDE information. Ask your daughter if she would be willing to TRY living with you. Maybe your actual treatment of her can undue some of the father's "brainwashing." Showing up for the court hearing re meds, particularly if you have an attorney in tow, can be very helpful. The social worker should be able to tell you when that is scheduled. Best of Luck ~ billieJ