I agree with Darkeyes...what happened in the past happened in the past. That was why I let Ian know that I usually avoid his posts but thought I would ask him a question...I am just curious as well as I do wish well for him.

Can I ask why there seems to be a problem of fitting in then lately? I know myself, I will pm or post messages to those that seem to not be around lately...that is my concern and support to them. If they choose to not respond I cannot do anymore right? It is up to that person to stay in touch if they want to.

I also took part of my signature out of my response to Ian as well...he had mentioned before that he was uncomfortable with hugs so I respected that.

Also, I have been in chat several times and never saw any hostility? Gosh that sounds so harsh....


Heather

"In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life - it goes on."
~~Robert Frost