Hi Serenity. sounds like you are doing a good job one day at a time. Keep going to as many AA meetings as possible. As you work the program you will find the healing you are looking for. It may not all be in AA. But whatever it is, in addition to AA will become apparant. when the student is ready, the teachers will appear. Keep going to as many as possible AA meetings no matter what else comes along, though. Replacing an unhealthy addictive relationship with a healthy one aka AA meetings, is probably your best bet now. Good luck !!