Promises can you call a battered womens phone line? you ARE being emotionally battered. Get support from them. and then take action to get him away from you? emotionally you are not safe with him. legally you are not safe with him. And i am not convinced that you will remain physically safe with him. Could you call a battered womens line and see what support they can give to you in the stratigizing ? ASAP? Also, do you have a safe place you can go to that he doesnt know about?