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Originally Posted by Missquestions
Rhiannonsmoon, may I ask why do you and your boyfriend live as a married couple but have no plans to? I believe in the future years from now I would like to be married but I know I would like to sort out all the problems first before legally married.
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Hello Missquestions,
Marriage replaced the old way of committing to one another for 1year and 1day and celebrating the union each 1yr and 1day which was the original "anniversary" celebrations.
I got married and it was the worst thing I could have done. I had such an awful continuing experience that I vowed never to take that step again. My partner doesn't want marriage either, so we see no need of it; we are together because we want to be and there is no forced union.
But the Pagan way I get to wear a wedding dress every year and a day and celebrate it with a party or reception.
Hope this explains it
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