My daughter's going to be 13 this yr. We don't allow her to be at sleep overs. She went to a pool birthday party this summer where boys were invited but I spoke to the mother first and she said she had 5 parent volunteers. Even with that one boys tried to hold my daughters head under water. My daughter so far hates alcohol and she knows not to engage in risky behavior. I always tell her to call me if she's ever in a bad or uncomfortable position.

How much did you drink? Are you worried you had sex and don't remember. I wondering why you let the other boys touch you, when you have a BF.

All I can say is this party was a bad idea and 13 yr olds shouldn't be left unsupervised with alcohol. Have the confidence not to let yourself be in a bad situation and leave next time.