ACanthony, Have yall talked about it, I guess I can say Im pretty lucky because my boyfriend hates going out like to concerts and bars because he hates crowds and drunks, his dad was drunk his whole life but we find our own way to have fun and do things, maybe she thinks you will cheat on her because of her self-esteem issue, I just had a baby in may and my self esteem went down so low, Im 5'9 and weight 115lbs so im pretty skinny and after having my daughter I went back down to my normal size again with only 1 stretch mark on my stomach, I hear people say all the time "oh you look good for just having a baby." blahblahblah. but as much as I hear it I dont ever believe it, so just my self-esteem going way down has made me think my boyfriend is going to cheat or find someone that looks better than me. maybe she has that problem also and thats why she has those thoughts in the back of her mind all the time.