i really love my boyfriend and he means absolutely everything to me....he is my best friend....I am a person that has to be loved on and told that shes pretty, he is the opposite, he wants to be by hisself and hates to love on me....or doesnt do it as often as i would like, how can i get him to love on me more and how can i get him to be a nicer person to me??? He doesnt have sex with me anymore either, just like every saturday...he says its because he is tired at work, but then when we go do something til 11 at night he doesnt complain about being tired, so why would he rather do something and not be tired than not have sex with me because he is tired....is it because i had a baby?? i didnt change but only a stretch mark on my stomach that is about as thin as a pencil and 2 inchs long in a shape of a "v". i didnt tear or get stitches and i asked him if its different down there and he said no so why wont he have sex with me???