Peaches, I am extremely attached to my T, like you and I cannot imagine our relationship ending.
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s she saying that, by the time she retires, I won't feel sad and devastated about losing our relationship?
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I think that what your T is saying is that by the time she retires, you will be able to "take her with you." In other words, you will have internalized the relationship and can be comforted and feel safe with yourself because she will be inside of you. Your relationship with T feels very very special. In the for-what-it's-worth category, in the first year I saw T I flat out told him I was worried about him retiring! Ugh. But now I am with him for nearly four years and although I still worry about it, I also believe that if he did retire, I would survive. OMG did I just say that?
(((((((((Peaches)))))))))
You will survive and thrive too! In the meanwhile, enjoy the special bond you have with T.
