Can you tell me what country of the world you live in? England west yorkshire

In your area, the service is called Childline, and you can reach them to chat at 0800 1111. It is an anonymous service where counsellors can talk with you about whats going on, and they may help you to work this out as well.


What is it you want to do about choices from here? i really don't know

Thats ok. The important thing here is that you are working on deciding that, which is very mature. It is important for you to remember to do the very best thing for YOU. No matter who pressures you into doing what, do what you think is best for you - and to decide what that is, talk to older people you trust and do "research". It seems like you value waiting to have sex, and drink, and such things - I would stick with that as I think that is a good sound choice for you right now.


Do you feel like you want to continue to have sex? well, not untill i am older and i never wanted to now in the first place and i don't know if i ever have

Then stick with that, for sure. Thats another mature, healthy and good choice. Trust me when i say that losing "it" early, is almost never a good thing and almost everyone regrets not waiting later on. You can always lose it, but you cant ever get it back. Sometimes it seems like in today's world, its not a big deal, but later on it is, believe me.


Do you feel like you may want to drink again? to be honest yes but never again at a party but a glass of wine

That too, in my opinion, is a great choice. Drinking is not something you need to do in excess right now! you have learned a really valuable lesson here - that when you drink in excess, it often leads to choices being made that you wouldn't necessarily feel good about later on when "straight headed". Plus you know what? When you drink alot, you almost always feel like utter garbage the next day. Hangovers are NO fun. Leave that for when you are older and are more comfortable with yourself and your choices. Right now focus on learning about you in safe ways!

Or right now you feel like you would rather not get into those things until you are older? as i said when i am older


I think you are very smart to wait. 13 is pretty young, but i remember feeling so ready for everything at the time. But you know what? And i promise this is not just because im an adult - Now, i look back, and i realize how young i really still was. I was just a kid. I felt like an adult - but I so wasn't. I promise.


i am just scared of what could of happen or might of happened