Okay so sometimes I feel really crazy when I remember things. The DSS worker we talked to like 4 years ago said that inappropriate touching constituted "anything under what a bathing suit would cover", like that would be really bad okay.
but what is inappropriate between an adult family member and a younger family member?
like does it change from family to family or are there set boundaries that all should follow? like I know some families are closer than others. My immediate family (ones I live with and have lived with all my life) certainly aren't close and even when we brush up against each other, we apologize. But, like in my aunt's house with her kids, they're physically closer than we are, like they'll sit together and it's okay.

but yeah okay that was a ramble
can you tell i'm confused?
but umm...
is it exactly appropriate for a grandfather to umm...grasp his granddaughter's shoulders from behind and kiss her neck/shoulder once? it wasn't like disgusting, he didn't do anything weird. he just did it, and he said, "don't give me that look (was i giving a look?), grandfathers can kiss their granddaughters on the neck." and left.
was that inappropriate?????


Rachel // S***h