Yup the subject is "you". glad to meet you. I remember seeing your name but no new posts from you so figured you were taking a break. Yes I've noticed since I have been here that PC continues to change. As much as I hate change coming to an on line support group where the people are committed to moving forwards is a special thing. There is nothing that says everyone has to move forwards or move all at the same pace its just something that each of us has to decide for ourselves. Sometimes people do need to take time staying in the same place and sometimes people get zapped back to the beginning. Thats the healing process. a therapist once told me when I kept finding myself zapped back to the beginning - for some people progress is two step forwards and three back and the reason for this is some how they skipped over something important so they needed to go back and land on that step and process it before jumping two steps forwards again. Hang in there, you will get there. not at my pace but at yours.