Yeah Dan is great...but I have hated him too. Right now I am idealizing him. He is going to piss me off sometime in the future then I will say all sorts of horrible things about him such as he never cares about me or he is in league with satan and my husband to mess me up. Yep, these are things that I have written about him in my journal. Wish I could see him as a good guy all the time, it would make therapy a whole lot easier.
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Deal with the difficult while it is still easy. Solve large problems when they are still small. Preventing large problems by taking small steps is easier the solving them. Therefore, the Tao person anticipates and lives wisely, by small actions accomplishing great things.--From the Tao Te Ching