Peaches, you know my story so well, so I don't need to repeat it all. Just this one part. I NEVER thought that I would get over my dependency/attachment to Bt in only 6 months of seeing someone else.

NEVER! But you know the rest of the story!

I also still think about my first T and she will always have a place in my heart. Your T will be "with" you even when you don't see her. You go through a grieving process, like any other loss, but then you make peace with it.

One suggestion: Be sure you and T allow time to cut down your sessions gradually, and talk about your feelings. I disagree that it's too soon to talk about now, unless she says it's a few years away. Talking about your fears, in my opinion, will help.