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I guess if it's your life that we're talking about, the answer would be to stop playing those games that you know are going to set things up so that they will eventually explode.

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I think playing games will hurt you every time! IMO it's best to avoid doing that at all costs. I've always found that being straight forward works the best for me.

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Part of this is because the part of me that "handles things" doesn't communicate with the part that "feels things

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How I feel about things usually helps determine how I handle things, so I can understand how one would have a lot of trouble if those two parts didn't communicate with each other.

Thanks for your reply Wendy.