Hi Kimmy,

Just a personal view, which I'm sure won't surprise you, as it comes from my deep philosophy.

It's never worth getting upset with our own kids. Kids judge us by how much we don't get upset with them. The cooler we are, the more they respect us for it.

Good vibes will be remembered decades after the speeding tickets are forgotten IMHO.

I can understand how you feel though, and I'm sure your daughter does too.

Good thoughts, M