(((( willow )))) I think we have to learn how to nurture our inner child if we experienced neglect in our childhood. And that can really only come by being shown and taught how a child should be treated.

And honestly, a T can't give us what we need really. All they can do is teach us how to find out how to get what we need from inside of ourselves. That is the challenge really - esp for those of us who feel like we don't have anything inside of us. But we really do - or else we would not still be here. There is something that keeps us fighting when we really just want to give up. That is what T said anyway.