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Originally Posted by WePow
I think we have to learn how to nurture our inner child if we experienced neglect in our childhood. And that can really only come by being shown and taught how a child should be treated.
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Is T supposed to show us this? I like my T but I really don't see how I can get shown this with once/month appointments, especially as she seems to be a 'client has all the answers inside them' T who never gives me anything of herself, as in I know nothing about her and she won't even tell me if she had a good holiday!!! She just sits and listens, which is nice, but I don't learn how to do anything different...
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Originally Posted by WePow
And honestly, a T can't give us what we need really.
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know this I really do, but I still want someone to take care of me, even though that also completely terrifies me!
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Originally Posted by WePow
All they can do is teach us how to find out how to get what we need from inside of ourselves. That is the challenge really - esp for those of us who feel like we don't have anything inside of us. But we really do - or else we would not still be here. There is something that keeps us fighting when we really just want to give up. That is what T said anyway.
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WePow, it sounds as if you have a very wise T, especially about the bit where we feel we don't have anything inside us. Thank you for sharing that
*Willow*