Can you take a fresh notebook and write a letter to your T every day? You don't necessarily have to give it to T....but use it as a way of talking to her while she's away. Also (and I know this sounds bizarre) call her vmail a few times just to hear her voice on the message and hang up without leaving a message. If you think about it, really think about it, 10 days isn't all that long. You can get thru it, I know you can!