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Originally Posted by sunrise
Yes, it is.
Do you know why you are still with him? Nothing you wrote sounded positive at all, from his hell-raising at your jobs to his kicking you out to the way he treats and talks to you. Are you still with him because you want your baby to have a Dad? Everything you wrote makes me think he will not be a good father.... I think you should make a list of the pros and cons of staying together and then see how they stack up. You've listed a bunch of "cons". Where are the pros? If there are none, get out.
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Yeah, the only pros is that he has 2 other children and does take of them finacially, however to kinda think of it he never really sees them. Well one live 12 hours away but the other is only 45 min away and he never sees her, unless she comes into town for HS softball games. He teted me to like 3:50 am this morning trying to get a response outta me. Kept on pretending he was texting a friend about some girl and sending it to me. So childish, he's 38 yrs old. I've been ignoring him as best I can. What bothers me the most is that he condems me in front of other people when i am not around making me look like a loser and all of them love him. They have no idea, his family won't talk to me. God knows what he has said to them to make me look bad.