Do you have any hobbies or belong to a gym. Go out for a nice walk. I agree it's best not to discuss your trip or problems in your love life. Did you discuss the sexual problem with your doctor?? Men over 50 should be having a prostate exam and blood test also. Prostate problems can cause sexual dysfunction. At least you can talk things out here and not feel embarrassed. What do you like to do when you're not working?