try cuddling up next to the SIDE of her. that way, most of her body is free. try putting pillows around her and giving her a blanket to cuddle with. layers between you and her will help her feel more safe.

<font color=purple> Man can will nothing unless he has first understood that he must count no one but himself; that he is alone, abandoned on earth in the midst of his infinite responsibilities, without help, with no other aim than the one he sets himself, with no other destiny than the one he forges for himself on this earth. Jean-Paul Sartre </font color=purple>